Thursday, March 26, 2009

honestly...

marriage scares the shit out of me.

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  1. You two will be fine. Everything that matters in life is difficult, we just need to realize that. Rilke said that, not me.

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  2. Honestly...


    Since marriage is supposed to be a reflection of Christ and the Church, I figure you simply haven't met the right guy yet or the thought of being single would be even more scary.

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  3. WOW. i could not disagree more with what nathan said.

    being single is not scary and just because you meet the "right" guy, it doesnt mean all your problems about marriage will just quickly dissolve. that thought process scares me more than anything.

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  4. marriage is not for everyone. nor should it be.

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  5. Gui,

    You (or Rilke) are right, the difficult things are what matter most. Still makes it no less terrifying.

    Nate,

    I'm going to (kinda) agree with Anita (Ana?). I know couples who love each other very much get married and have a very difficult time of it. I think what terrifies me and maybe Megan, is marrying the wrong person and feeling like we are stuck in that relationship. We are human after all and prone to make mistakes.

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  6. i am looking forward to it greatly.

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  7. I have been married six years and am still terrified of marriage. It is one of the hardest things I've ever done. Of course, you could say I didn't marry the "right" guy. But then, I wasn't the "right" girl either. Sigh. My hope is that God will bring right and good things out of the situation.

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